The Course
21 Days to Better Partnership
A guided challenge for couples who want to share the mental load, not just the chores. Ten to fifteen minutes a day, built for real, busy lives.
What’s inside the 21 days
From noticing to living it
Week 1 · Notice it
See the load
- The invisible work, named
- Your household master list
- The 50/50 Myth: capacity by season
- Glass balls and rubber balls
- The Art of Noticing
- Shared accountability
Week 2 · Own it
Share the load
- Helping vs. owning
- Leveraging your strengths
- Learning to let go
- Communication before resentment
- Making a clear ask
- Mine, Yours, Ours
- What We Pass Down
Week 3 · Live it
Make it last
- Reset & regroup check-in
- The Weekly Team Meeting
- Forget-proof systems
- Keeping it fair as life changes
Everything you get
What’s included
21 daily lessons
Short video lessons from Alan and Kat, one each day.
Printable activity guides
A guide for every lesson so you can work through it together.
Live check-ins
Group calls to reset, ask questions and get unstuck. Replays included.
Bonus tools
The Notice Scan, a room-scan guide for kids, and the Weekly Team Meeting job aid.
Pricing
One price. Both of you.
Your enrollment covers you and your partner, with lifetime access so you can come back whenever your season changes.
21 Days to Better Partnership
$97
- 21 daily video lessons
- Printable activity guides
- Live check-ins and replays
- Bonus tools and printables
- Lifetime access for both partners
FAQ
Good questions
How much time does it take each day?
About 10 to 15 minutes for the lesson and activity. Some days have longer conversations, and that’s okay. Go at your own pace.
Do we both need to do it?
It works best together, since most activities are built for two. If your partner isn’t ready yet, you can start on your own. Many of the tools still help, and they often draw the other person in.
We don’t have kids. Is this still for us?
Yes. The mental load exists in every home. Where lessons touch on kids, we include options for couples without them.
What if we miss a day?
Pick up where you left off. You keep lifetime access, so there’s no falling behind.
Is this couples therapy?
No. It’s a practical, education-based challenge from one couple to another. If you’re facing deeper struggles, we encourage working with a licensed counselor.
What if we can’t make the live calls?
Every live check-in is recorded and posted so you can watch whenever it works for you.